I spent September doing a walking challenge - 300,000 steps in the month to raise money for Tommy's and the Miscarriage Association.
One of the benefits of all this walking was finding quite a few yellowstick bargains in my local Co-Op and the much closer but smaller One Stop.
The result was...depressing would only just start to describe it. If I hadn't done my calculations then I would have had a hell of a shock and upset further down the line!
In my recent post about my mortgage overpayments I mentioned a few of my side-hustles that I use to earn a few extra pennies to go towards the mortgage.
One of my other side-hustles, although not dedicated to becoming mortgage free (it goes to my Lifetime ISA instead) is Zazzle. This print-on-demand company allows you to upload your original works, set them up to print on various products, and then list them for sale. Zazzle handles the printing and dispatch, so you only get a small amount of the money, but you can bump up your percentage (this does bump up the cost of the product though) to earn a bit more.
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When we bought our first home back in 2016 I knew I wanted to try and overpay the mortgage. Me and my husband had had a good deposit, but it was our first home and it needed plenty of work after years of neglect. The previous owners were landlords and they had done very little to keep the place nice.
This meant that we had a longer mortgage term so that we could have affordable monthly repayments and focus more on doing the place up. We wanted the option of not overpaying in some months if we needed to, rather than having to pay higher monthly payments and being unable to change that.
One of the side effects of the pandemic has been the number of chain restaurants that have licensed some of their menu for supermarket shelves. Unable to welcome customers to their own outlets they have managed to save their businesses by getting their good to us for home consumption.
Pizza Express has been doing this for years with their pizzas and their garlic doughballs. But in the past few months they have expanded their line to include pasta, side dishes, and a few of their desserts. I've seen salted caramel tarts, and recently I spotted their new vanilla cheesecake slices on the reduced shelf at Tesco! Since it was only £1.50 I decided to give them a try. I love cheesecake and I'm always happy to try a new brand when it comes out.
We originally booked a trip to Elveden Forest back in September 2020, when you could still be optimistic about Covid rates remaining low. The date was for mid-November, a week after my birthday, so I felt like I was booking a little birthday trip.
Sadly in early November England went back into lockdown, so our holiday had to be postponed. After thinking about it and trying to work out when Covid rates were likely to be safer, we opted for the week of our wedding anniversary in April!
When the UK went in to the first lockdown in March 2020, many people saw an opportunity to focus on improving their home. While some DIY shops were flooded with people buying paint and wallpaper or new lighting fixtures, the real issue came in May and June, when lockdown started to be relaxed. At this point many charity shops were inundated with donations, as people had spent some of their furlough or their weekends at home having a clearout.
For the past couple of years I've told myself that I would cut back on my use of Amazon for my Christmas shopping. Bezos has more than enough money, the staff are overworked and underpaid, and there are plenty of small businesses that could use my money and will pay UK taxes with it.
Every year I end up inevitably failing. I will get some things from places like Waterstones, but eventually I'll resort to Amazon as it's cheaper and thus I can "buy more" for family and friends. And then over the course of the next year I read more about the poor treatment of Amazon warehouse staff and feel guilty and resolve to not do it again.
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Blue Eyed Boy is a novel from the popular author Joanne Harris, the author of “Chocolat” (turned into a film starring Johnny Depp and Juliette Binoche). As with many of Harris’ books this one is written from several different points of view, the real twist comes from two characters actually writing from four different viewpoints between them.
The story starts with the character “blueeyedboy”, an internet persona who posts on a web journal called a “WeJay”. Each section is started with a box similar to that of an online blog, it notes the author, whether the entry is public or restricted (something you have to check as the story develops otherwise you may become a bit confused), what they are listening to and their mood. Each “public” chapter also ends with comments left by other online personas that follow the WeJay.
Blueyedboy is one of three boys whose mother assigned them different colours in order to make buying clothes for them easier; Nigel the eldest was given black, Brendan was assigned brown, and Benjamin had blue. As the story develops you quickly learn that colour is a major running theme in this story as every person is assigned a name that relates to a colour; “Mrs Electric Blue”, “Emily White”, “Doctor Peacock”. The colours are specific to the development of the character and their persona, for example the name “Emily White” suggests a young girl, the character is around six years old so this fits perfectly. “Doctor Peacock” gives you a vision of an intellectual professor type who collects things and has an old-fashioned mentality. As the book moves on you realise how well these names fit the characters. Blueeyedboy is very much an anti-hero, he’s manipulative and scheming and has little to no empathy. However when you realise just how abusive his mother is you feel a bit of sympathy for him (although it’s sympathy that won’t last long!) and his situation.
The community that “blueeyedboy” posts on is called “BadGuysRock” and it is here that he posts little murder-mystery stories written from his perspective. The other members leave their comments on the stories, and in his restricted entries we learn more about his “fans”; a woman obsessed with her celebrity crush, a troll masquerading as a religious fanatic who insists the author will burn in hell, an overweight girl that yo-yo diets and falls for abusive men, and a commenter whose comments are repeatedly deleted.
The story follows multiple murders, all published as public stories on the web community. It is only through blueeyedboy’s restricted, non-public posts that the connections are made and the real story unravels. About a third of the way in he is joined by “Albertine”, who tells her own side of the tale in a similar way. Her public stories are not about murder, but are instead posted from the view of a small blind child called Emily White, and again they are explained and unravelled through both her private postings and those of blueeyedboy.
Having read quite a lot of Harris’ previous works I’m used to her adept juggling of different viewpoints. However this time I struggled. The use of public and restricted-viewing posts threw me off once or twice, you really do need to read the top of each chapter carefully so you know what you’re meant to be reading. Four different viewpoints is a little too much for one book, especially when you throw in a whole host of additional characters, quite a few of which have names related to the colour blue and thus eventually blur in to one big (blue) blob. It makes for a very good story, but it’s not the kind that you can read when you’re tired and not fully concentrating because you really do need to pay attention to what you’re reading.
However the book does include one of Harris’ usual big twists and that makes it all worthwhile!
I would thoroughly recommend this book to anyone who has read Harris’ previous works. For a new reader however it may not be the best tale to start with, the jump from viewpoints can get a little tiring and if you’re not used to her style of writing (and knowing that sooner or later she’s going to shove in a decent twist that surprises you) then you might end up giving up on the story early on. Stick with it however, the ending will make your spine tingle!
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I bought this book a couple of years ago, and since then I will occasionally go back to reread it, particularly during times when North Korea is in the news. When I originally purchased it I ended up devouring ut within 2 days as I simply couldn't put it down, and each time I reread it I find it just a compelling as that first read.
The author, Barbara Demick, is a journalist for the Los Angeles Times who spent time in South Korea from 2001 onwards. During her time she interviewed North Korean defectors, those who had escaped from the North in to either China or South Korea. Over the years she spoke to over 100 former North Koreans, primarily those from the city of Chongjin.
In the opening to the book she explains that she chose Chongjin as it's further away from the capital Pyongyang. North Korea's capital city is kept as the equivalent of a trade-show to Western tourists, those that live there permanently are smart, attractive, from high-status families or are part of the Workers Party. By choosing former residents of Chongjin, Demick gets a more authentic tale of life in North Korea.
The story focuses on six main "characters" from a diverse range of backgrounds. There's "Mrs Song", who used to be fully dedicated to the Workers Party, Mi-ran the school teacher, Mrs Song's daughter Oak-hee who managed to escape an abusive husband, Jun-sang whose Korean family decided to repatriate from Japan and settle in the North, Hyuck the orphan whose arrest ultimately decides his fate, and Dr Kim whose Chinese-born father leaves her with an invaluable gift. They cover a range of ages and different social classes, for example Mi-ran's father is actually South Korean, a Prisoner of War who was never allowed to leave, while Mrs Song is married to a journalist which makes their family remarkably well-off in the grand scheme of things.
In between all their stories are explanations about the North Korean way of life. You would think that a true socialist society would have no class structure, and yet North Korea's system is worse than the social structure of India, with those on the bottom unable to rise and their children condemned with them. Likewise the economic situation is explained early on, I never knew that after the Korean War, the South was far worse off than the North. Demick also explains the propoganda, the daily indoctrination, the "voluntary" tasks such as spending one day a week in self-criticism, and the way neighbours spy on each other.
Through each person you get a rich picture of daily life in North Korea, and then the terrible years of the Great Famine and the situation that developed after it. You understand why it's so difficult for many to walk away, and why there is now an increasing number of people defecting. More than that, you'll start to realise the enormity of the task that South Korea will face should unification ever become a possibility, and just how much China will fight tooth and nail to prevent it happening.
If you have ever had any inclination to finding out about North Korea, then buy this book. If you ever see the old photos of people weeping at the funeral of Kim Il-sun or King Jong-il, and wonder how they can cry like that, then buy this book. If you wonder why the country doesn't just rise up in it's own version of the Arab Spring, then buy this book. If none of those things sound interesting to you, then buy this book anyway.
"Nothing to Envy" is the perfect title, because at the end of it you will come away realising how lucky you are to be born in a wealthy country, and you will never be able to think about North Korea again without mentally adding the words "those poor sods".
